Thnkyou Lorraine for giving me the opportunity to expand on this.
This is based on what I know from 2 women who like a bit of the riding crop. Their need has something to do with breaking through the numbness they feel.
One I know doesn't want the whip for pain, but for the sensual feel of the contact, such as with spanking. It was her idea to introduce it into her love making.
I'm not sure about the other woman, suffice to say that she has also experienced numbness and was in a physically abusive relationship for mny years. She is now with her hero, but sometimes feels the need to break through a lack of sensation.
Medications like anti-depressants ccan also make us feel less physicaly . I was on them for a few months recently and immediately noticed the dimunation of sensation. Once I was off them, things got much more readily aroused - more quickly than before, even.
I made this piece not so much for titallation, but as a way of explaining why some people see the need to do what others would see as extreme or perverted or whatever.
It isn't all about the relief from psychic pain, but the need to be more than neutral or num and to feel some pleasure.
Psychic pain I know, and accepted for 42 years until I broke. Anti-depressant which I fought forever until i had no choice, allow me to breathe, literally. They have a lot of side effects and I would never ever recommended to a person who is depressed because the symptoms are far worse than depression. However, when you body quits on you, because your nervous system has become so unbalanced that you are on high gear, fight of flight, oppressed, suffocated, then anti-depressants are better than the actual illness. I wouldn't recommend them for anything less than feeling suffocated 24 hours a day. But to say that they are useless, no they're not. Ok I'm done :)
she says / she needs / to feel / sensual #haiku haiga
It wasn't there when I last looked or I would have tried to comment...not useless, but it's an impossible comment to make, without double entendre
ReplyDeleteThnkyou Lorraine for giving me the opportunity to expand on this.
ReplyDeleteThis is based on what I know from 2 women who like a bit of the riding crop. Their need has something to do with breaking through the numbness they feel.
One I know doesn't want the whip for pain, but for the sensual feel of the contact, such as with spanking. It was her idea to introduce it into her love making.
I'm not sure about the other woman, suffice to say that she has also experienced numbness and was in a physically abusive relationship for mny years. She is now with her hero, but sometimes feels the need to break through a lack of sensation.
what human do to relieve the psychic pain...so much of it...thanks for the explanation
ReplyDeleteMedications like anti-depressants ccan also make us feel less physicaly . I was on them for a few months recently and immediately noticed the dimunation of sensation. Once I was off them, things got much more readily aroused - more quickly than before, even.
ReplyDeleteI made this piece not so much for titallation, but as a way of explaining why some people see the need to do what others would see as extreme or perverted or whatever.
It isn't all about the relief from psychic pain, but the need to be more than neutral or num and to feel some pleasure.
Psychic pain I know, and accepted for 42 years until I broke. Anti-depressant which I fought forever until i had no choice, allow me to breathe, literally. They have a lot of side effects and I would never ever recommended to a person who is depressed because the symptoms are far worse than depression. However, when you body quits on you, because your nervous system has become so unbalanced that you are on high gear, fight of flight, oppressed, suffocated, then anti-depressants are better than the actual illness. I wouldn't recommend them for anything less than feeling suffocated 24 hours a day. But to say that they are useless, no they're not. Ok I'm done :)
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